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The Man Who Had Three Wives

By Aida Sevilla Mendoza

(Reprinted from Sunday Inquirer August 6, 2000)

Attorney Asuncion countered that when Paolo and Mary Ann got married, Paolo only had P20,000 in his bank account. It was through their combined efforts that they were able to accumulate savings in the bank.

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(This story is based on a case in which Ma. Clara B. Tankeh-Asuncion appeared for the prosecution. The names of the persons and some places and other identifying aspects of the case have been changed to protect the innocent, but the legal facts have not been changed. Except for the name of the lawyer, the names in this story are fictitious.)

IN his answer seeking the dismissal, for lack of merit, of Mary Ann Blianca's petition for separation of community property and support, Paolo Lariata alleged through his lawyer that when he met with Mary Ann at the country club, she presented a one-sided separation of property agreement and insisted that he sign it. Owing to the inequality of the division of the properties, he refused to sign. Paolo also claimed that he had not been remiss in his obligation to support Mary Ann and their daughter Yolanda, despite a reduction in his earnings due to the adverse publicity generated by the cases she had filed against him.

Paolo's lawyer also contended that Mary Ann lost her right to be supported by Paolo because she had left the conjugal dwelling without just cause and without the knowledge and consent of Paolo (Article 100 (1) of the Family Code). Also, her right to be supported was negated under Article 72 of the Family Code because she had filed criminal and civil cases against Paolo "in a brazen attempt to compel him to agree to the one-sided separation of property agreement, bringing danger, dishonor and irreparable injury to his reputation and career." Moreover, the filing of these cases and the resulting adverse publicity and legal expenses had severely reduced Paolo's finances and his chances of being offered contracts and work in his career as a singer, Paolo's lawyer added.

Most of all, the lawyer continued, Mary Ann's right to receive support from Paolo had yet to be determined by the court in view of his compulsory counterclaim for declaration of nullity of their marriage under Article 36 of the Family Code - an action that would dispute her status as Paolo's wife. Per Article 36 of the Family Code, psychological incapacity is a basis for declaring a marriage null and void. Paolo's lawyer alleged that because of her emotional immaturity and instability, Mary Ann was unable to discharge her essential marital obligations to Paolo and Yolanda, to the extent that she finally left their dwelling with the child without her husband's consent and then returned to the States. But without psychiatric test results indicating emotional immaturity/instability on Mary Ann's part and the capacity to develop the deep and mature interpersonal relationship essential to marriage on Paolo's part, the argument for annulling the marriage was weak. In fact, Paolo's sudden departure for the United States in February 1996, while preliminary hearings were being held by the assistant city prosecutor and a departure hold order had not yet been issued, combined with Mary Ann's testimony and supported by witnesses, that he had treated her violently and abusively during and after her pregnancy, worked against Paolo's attempt to invoke Article 36. In her answer to Paolo's counterclaims, Mary Ann's counsel Maria Clara B. Tankeh-Asuncion maintained that Paolo had "no right in fact and in law to assume his counterclaim for declaration of nullity of marriage will be granted in order to defeat the instant case and therefore they are governed by the absolute community of property as he is not with clean hands to ask for the same."

As for Paolo's argument that the division of property Mary Ann presented was one-sided, Attorney Asuncion asserted that Paolo had already agreed to it before they met at the country club, as the sharing was only 25 percent for Mary Ann and 75 percent for him. She reiterated that Mary Ann was forced to leave the conjugal dwelling, having been driven out by Paolo, and that she had to leave for the States thereafter because of Paolo's threats to snatch Yolanda once their marriage ended - little Yolanda, whom Paolo had never asked about, called, visited or supported. Mary Ann had no recourse but to file a criminal case against Paolo, Attorney Asuncion said, to protect her interests, as he had been transferring their community property under his name alone while falsely stating his status as single. As a consequence, Attorney Asuncion said, a warrant for Paolo's arrest had already been issued, but he was still hiding in the United States, a fugitive from justice with his passport canceled by the Department of Foreign Affairs of the Philippines.

As a second counterclaim, Paolo's lawyer alleged that his client had accumulated, through his sole efforts, an estate with an estimated aggregate value of P8 million. He argued that based on the rules on co-ownership under Article 147 or on partnership under Article 148 of the Family Code, the parties are only entitled to participate to the extent of their respective contributions. Thus, Paolo's lawyer went on, Mary Ann's rights should be determined by the court only after considering the support due Paolo's children with Nimfa Carilo, with Marietta Ponse and with Mary Ann herself, and after determining which properties were acquired during Paolo's marriage with Nimfa and which properties were acquired during his marriage with Mary Ann.

To this, Attorney Asuncion countered that when Paolo and Mary Ann got married, Paolo only had P20,000 in his bank account. It was through their combined efforts, Attorney Asuncion said, that they were able to accumulate savings in the bank and acquire the properties that were the subject of the petition. Furthermore, Paolo was not supporting Rosalie, his daughter by Nimfa Carilo, and did not recognize Paolita as his child with Marietta Ponse. Paolo had never seen, visited, much less supported Paolita in seven years, but now he "boldly impleads her for his material gain and evil intents," Attorney Asuncion pointed out.

Regarding Paolo's third counterclaim concerning visitation rights, that he had not been allowed to visit Yolanda, Attorney Asuncion replied that from the time he threw Mary Ann and Yolanda out of the conjugal abode, Paolo had shown no interest in visiting the child, and it was Mary Ann who begged him to visit her. And when Paolo finally did, he stayed for only around two minutes. Paolo's fourth, fifth and sixth counterclaims were for actual and moral damages totaling P5,300,000 and payment of attorney's fees in the amount of P1 million plus P500,000 as costs of suit. Paolo contended that his image was vital to his livelihood, and as a result of Mary Ann's "media barrage" of false accusations, his career, which was about to take off after having slowed down for some time, was halted and ruined. Also, he said that her causing untruthful statements to be published or broadcast, especially her request for an immediate departure-hold order, had caused him serious anxiety, sleepless nights, a tarnished reputation and serious embarrassment.

Attorney Asuncion replied that if ever Paolo's career was ruined, it was because of his own doing, brought about by his involvement in the pop music award scam. She added that during this crisis in Paolo's life, Mary Ann was the only one who stood by him, giving him all the support he needed. As for the hold-departure order, Mary Ann sought it lest Paolo leave for the States, as in fact he already did, "without any intention of returning because of the instant case and his lack of sincerity to save his marriage, thinking he can always run away scot-free from all his follies, by filing instant counterclaims, most specifically the declaration of nullity of marriage." Paolo's failure to reconcile with Mary Ann, Attorney Asuncion continued, caused her to lose potential business opportunities amounting to about P3 million a year, income that was needed for the support of their family while he was not working and earning. Thus, Paolo should pay Mary Ann actual damages in the amount of P3 million for lost business opportunities plus US$60,000 for the personal effects unjustly withheld by him.

Finally, Attorney Asuncion argued, since Paolo's answer with counterclaims was not verified by him, it was hearsay in accordance with Section 6, Rule 7 of the Rules of Court and therefore should be denied. In view of all the foregoing, Attorney Asuncion asked the court to grant Mary Ann's petition; to uphold the validity of the marriage of the parties, the indissolubility of their marriage bonds, the legitimacy of their child, and the absolute community of property during their marriage, all with the end in view of preserving the family; to deny Paolo's counterclaims for damages and attorney's fees and instead to order him to compensate Mary Ann for actual damages earlier specified; and to declare Paolo as the party who had contracted the marriage in bad faith, and who therefore was not entitled to any of the reliefs he had prayed for in his counterclaims.

Through his lawyers and backed up by his parents, Paolo Lariata continued fighting Mary Ann's petition for separation of absolute community of property and support. The Lariatas felt that Mary Ann had brought very little to the community property and her lawsuit only confirmed their suspicion that she married their son for his money, especially the properties they had bequeathed to him. But their opposition faltered when the criminal case filed against Paolo for bigamy and falsification of a public document prospered. In July 1996, the assistant city prosecutor, noting Paolo's "consistent failure to submit controverting evidence despite subpoena duly served," found prima facie evidence of bigamy, Paolo having contracted a subsequent and second marriage with Nimfa Carilo when he was still legally married to Janet Barnes. There was also prima facie evidence of falsification of a public document, Paolo having declared his civil status as "single" in his marriage contract with Nimfa Carilo.

A warrant for Paolo's arrest was subsequently issued and his passport was canceled, which meant that he could not come back to the Philippines. This turn of events gave Paolo and his parents no choice but to agree to negotiations for a property settlement in exchange for the dropping of the criminal case, which everyone knew had been filed by an employee in the law office of Mary Ann's lawyer. By April 1997, the lawyers had worked out a compromise agreement whereby Mary Ann and Paolo agreed to dissolve their conjugal property partnership and divide their properties with all properties considered paraphernal, including earnings from her separate income, profession or business going to Mary Ann plus all the jewelry, P5 million and real estate property in Tagaytay. All properties considered capital, including those derived from his separate income or business, were adjudicated to Paolo as his own separate property, such as three cars, shares of stock in the gift shop, a condominium unit in Pasig City and real estate properties in Batangas and Cavite. Mary Ann would have custody of and support Yolanda, but Paolo would be entitled to visitation rights. The court approved the compromise agreement as the decision ending the civil case and Mary Ann's witnesses signed a desistance, clearing the way for Paolo's counsel to move for the dismissal of the criminal charges against him. Mary Ann did not object when Paolo's lawyer presented documents to the court in pursuit of his counterclaim for the declaration of the nullity of the marriage. The court, finding that Paolo was still legally married to Janet Barnes when he married Mary Ann, declared their marriage void ab initio for being bigamous. That ended Paolo Lariata's third marriage, but not his woes. He remains in the United States, unable to return home because his passport was canceled, while Mary Ann Blianca is now happily married in Seattle to a business executive who has legally adopted Yolanda.

 

 

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